I had a person recently ask if I wanted him to pay as a gift since my price ws really good. I told him that would be great for me lol, but I don't ask people to do that, nor do I recommend anyone ever do that. He asked if I wanted him to cover fees, again said no it was already factored in. He sent me a few extra dollars to cover the fees! Great guy and everyone was happy.
Paypal offers a service, and yeah, the fees suck sometimes lol. But, there are other ways to pay, but if you prefer paypal, pay the fees.