Geez after that statement, you shouldn't be driving at all!!!!
No wonder no one would let you drive their car. You gotta have patience, dude! Take a closer look at your hobby store; buy the car that has the most parts availible, option parts or standard parts. Once you learn to drive well then get a cars suitable to keep up with the local club. 9 time out of 10 it will be the car you already bought!
But you gotta have patience...... or a very deep wallet!