If you're racing, get the DX3R. DSM2 has a noticeably faster response time.
However, if you can wait, get the DX3R PRO instead. I has integrated telemetry like the DX3S with the benefit of being DSM2 capable. It's out of stock in amain (I think I got the last piece

), but it shouldn't take long for them to replenish their stocks.