You could try the Future XXL or the YGE 200 HV Navy or maybe the Castle Creations HV240.

The problem with ESCs blowing up is the driving style. As IC engines have very little torque you can give the car full throttle at low revs and let it rip. An electric car will just go to full amps andblow the ESC when you do this. The ESCs have to be limited to ramp up the power slowly. Another solution would be to fit a mechanical 2 speed gearbox to offload the low speed amps

We have the same problem with speed cars. If we gear them up too high you have to feed in the throttle very slowly

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