Ok, so we the help of some friends we figured out wtf happened to this Picco motor.
I'm a noob so GO EASY on me
Upon replacing my connecting rod I had mis-placed the shims. Causing the motors compression to rise to only God knows what level.
I had only put 1 shim back in
It was my fault why the motor took a dump. As far as all the grease and what not around the motor when it blew I the gasket for the header had ripped about 9-10 tanks prior and I just never replaced it
I'm stocked on motors for now but I'm switching up to either Novi or Max motors.