Well as far as damper tube stuff, I think the red damper lube is actually somewhat similar to CRC blue. The Corally Blue stuff that comes in the kit is REALLY thick. Other than that... I'm not too sure.
As far as 19t/mod setups... Just take that setup that Larry has posted recently, and run different tires such as a Parma magenta all around, or the Parma Coral rear (a touch softer than magenta). That should give you more overall grip to help keep the car glued down a little better when you strap in some HP.
-Korey