So it took you thirteen years to have one incident with PayPal, and even though they're a business doing exactly what their stated policy is... now you don't like them?

PayPal makes things convenient for both the buyer and the seller. Like anything in life, there are some risks involved. How many buyers have you gained over the years by using their service? Want to try to do the money order only thing now.. good luck with that. They provide a service, you pay them (a %) to use that service... warts and all. As previously stated, PayPal tends to favor the buyer in any given transaction... but you should know that going into any transaction by this point. Deal with it, move on, and good luck with the next transaction.

And two days? You posted Saturday at 9am your time, on the second day after placing an order sometime on Thursday? That's not acceptable?