Lets try this!
Just realized I did not put in the blader screw on top of shock, leaks might have been coming from there... we'll see next time I test her. This might also have had an effect on overall stiffiness of the shocks (air going through).
I redid all four shocks tonight, however, couldn't get any "push back" from the shocks, not sure why.
now with this, I'll wait for the spring to get in and test them. Feeling the 85mm will be too long for front shocks, but at least I have options to raise her a little...
Quite bummed about the lack of responses from Durango though!