People complain about the bird cage connectors but I have yet to have any issues with any of the 1.5 dozen I have. Having said that, the solid bullets are superior.
The shorter ones here are one of the best for sure:
http://www.redrc.net/2011/07/tq-wire...et-connectors/
These are my personal favorite because it captures the wires well and gives you something to grab onto when you need to disconnect them which is a bit of a pain with the low profile ones:
http://www.nitrohouse.com/4mm-Bullet...-4_p_2404.html
I've heard these are really good too but I've not tried them myself:
http://www.hobbyking.com/mobile/view...dparentcat=409
The Reedy ones look good as well but I've not tried it. Their wire looks really nice too:
http://www.redrc.net/2013/11/reedy-p...rs/#more-74432
Hope this helps.