Beanstalk is still posting here and that tells me that he wants to do the right thing. There is nothing stopping him from just walking away from the forum and signing up again with a different screen name. He has only been here a short time, it's not like its a huge thing for him.
He is here posting on his own merits. He has no obligation to keep us informed. I think everyone should relax a bit. As long as the item gets sent back, I think beanstalk is good to go. This has been an aggregation for him and he wants to proceed carefully.
It sounds like everything will be ok (or so I hope).