congrats on the arrival of the new kid! don't give up hope though bud...RC and kids still can happen but it takes more time and work. just convince the significant other that RC keeps you out of the bars! I don't make loads of cash but I still manage to sneak in a Baja that finally got put together after a year of being tore apart, a crawler, a SCT, and a boat...took me about 5 years to accumulate but it keeps me sane! btw, I have 4 kids so I know about staying sane and choosing hobbies! good luck bud!