I've been having issues with amp loads frying connectors. I've ruined a set of deans, melted a set of trx connectors, and unsoldered a set of 5.5 bullets.

I soldered up a set of castle polarized connectors, and wowza. I've found my new connector. 6.5 bullets, rated at 200a continuous, they were slightly warm to the touch after running. They snap together with vengeance however. I am hoping they free up a little bit after some use