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How handle old crazy dad. Nice dad before

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Old 08-14-2019, 06:10 AM
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My Old dad is crazy today in many ways.

Last week he call Police Because i visit him with one friend to me. ( African ) nice friend.
He was kind to my Dad also.
My Dad says GO TO HELL YOU BOTH. and alot shit.
I ask then my Dad if he needs money or something. He wants Pizza.
OK NO Problem papa
He want family pizza size with tuna, ham. ananas only
no problem

I go there . pay and take that pizza home to him.
Then he says YOU ARE NOT MY FAMILY. THIS IS A FAMILY PIZZA
i say what ?
YEAH U HEAR ME!

bla bla bla
because my friend is black, my dad is pissed off. now.

MY FRIEND is nice guy born in scandinavia, he is jesus guy, normal and helpfull

my dad hates me now.

what to do now?
he needs my help, i will give him this, , he say fuck off go away now only

i feel helpless
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Do you have any photos from when you were a child? Maybe if you show him some photos of when you were younger he will remember you more?
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im having another double you tee eff moment
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Do you have any photos from when you were a child? Maybe if you show him some photos of when you were younger he will remember you more?
I think he is saying that his father is disowning him because he is hanging out with a black guy. I don’t think he is saying his dad has dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.

I say love your dad no matter what. Even if you disagree with him. Let it slide, be respectful and live your life. Have the best relationship with your dad that you can, no matter how bad he makes it. Hearts change. Be the better person.
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Old 08-14-2019, 09:41 AM
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Well this sounds sad but then again Hards Dad has his own feelings..Might be other things going on in His dad A Hospital visit might be in store..My grandmother had a case of sudden onset psychosis..aka dementia.. it was a sad ending 5 years later.. dint know her own daughters (5) of them.. and her son..medication did not help.Brings tear to me.but it is what it is..happened on thanksgiving day after she made dinner for her family.. then dint remember them after 3 minutes of eating. like a switch went off.and never went back on Life can throw a curveball at any second enjoy it while you can with all you can.
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Take your dad to the local RC track and let him work out his frustrations by banging pipes and bashing berms. HardTimes, HardBash. Hang in there and don't lose your friend over this. Friends are hard to come by.
Cheers and Regards. AC
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Old 08-14-2019, 12:24 PM
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Hi all RC Friends

You all are so kind nice people.
Thanks to all.

Understunding and Love

I will Love my DaD forever what ever always. He has only been good Before he got very very old

LOVE TO ALL
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Actually sounds like the early stages of dementia, have understanding with him and know that's not really "him", I would visit him by yourself and see how he is. Old age affects us differently, I went through the same with my dad, his reactions were different when I would visit him with multiple people vs just by myself, I think it's hard for them to process to many people when the onset of dementia starts, it's hard dealing with this, just remember your dad as he was and not how he now is, good luck..
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