Originally Posted by Black

Well i am 26 and ahve been racing for a steady 17yrs. That is one thing that is not going to change, I have lost many pretty decent gf's over it. But one thing that they never seemt to grasp and I hope your woman does for the relationship's sake. Is that we (men) are stubborn, we want to play and play we shall. Now she also needs to understand the time and money spent is nothing compared to the time, money, and health risks involved with frequenting bars (I am also a bartender).

So she can have you come home dirty smelling like nitro or have you come home smashed, super broke and smelling like a $2 prostitute. Its her call. They usually do one of two things when you put it in those terms, either be really kewl with it and back off or get super pissed and want to fight all night, which makes you go to the bars!