ok fixed my leaky shocks
. it was so easy to miss it, after pookyt's comment i looked even harder at the diagram. and he was right, the little fat o ring does not go on the black thingy, it went inside the shock body itself and then the little black thingy pushes up against it even more. i was wondering why when i was moving the shock shaft that i would collect air from the bottom, oh well. arggg, feel happy that i got it fixed but yet at the same time feel stupid i missed it.
thanks again pookyt and who ever responded to my question.