Oh, I am sorry. I meant it to be past tense. I have one now and only one. However at least I am not controlled by her. I will race and continue to race. Hell she wants to be like Diane and come out to race and watch, but I won't let her. She tends to make me upset while I am racing and makes it worse for me. However, yeah their are meds and liturature for it, but as for you, just need to grow a pair of testicles and a backbone. Instead of dating women that have a pair testicles. Whose the beotch nooowww!!!!