i was going to say it sounds like that it may just be your drive style if you are running 19t+ if not here is the setup i run and it feels nice
1.5 degree camber all round
blue tamiya springs on front and red on the back
40w oil front 30w oil back
ride height 6 front and 7 back ( i hate scratching that chassis! )
droop.. i cant remember, i use to use no droop and remove them and it was fine. the kit settings are wrong as they are for the 2.5mm chassis aparently, i changed my droop and it made it better, cant remember what to though!
a changed the suspension block at the back to block B
nothing else i can quite remember....
i used this setup with a 1way and diff seemed just right for both