Sorry if it has been difficult to get support. If I would have known, I would have jumped in sooner!
Hmm that is really odd. I've had that problem with programming cards that were originally prior to 3.0 since they are for very very old ESC's from ORCA, and not compatible.
I'm somewhat local to you, and an ORCA representative/Factory Driver. If you're ever around during one of the Seattle RC Racer club races in Seattle, I'd be happy to take a look at it for you.
Otherwise, you can even drop it in the mail and I can give it a shot on my computer to see if I can troubleshoot the system. Just PM me and we can work that out if you'd like. Otherwise, Eric Anderson from EA motorsports is also a good person to talk to, as he is the US Distributor for ORCA products.
Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help.
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