I got mine from ebay, should be getting them next week.
For the shocks being stiffer, did you put the same piston size and oil? the TRFs i THINK have a smaller can, so it could explain why it's stiffer, drop down one size oil weight.
Ran the car yesterday, if it wasn't for my ESC having problems, i would have been able to run it a lot longer, as it is, i barely used 1 pack, with help from a regular, we were able to get the car pretty dialed. We played with the roll center in the front, extended the front top arms to the inner hole, and raised it by 1mm, it actually help keep the front more planted as well. The car is great out of the box.
Is there anywhere i can read about how to setup the car? Not the basics, more the details in Roll Center changes, kick up, caster, etc